How to Achieve Life Balance
Updated: Jul 9, 2020
You probably know someone who seems successful in their career or business and likely doing well financially, but have a failed or failing marriage, poor relationship with their kids or are the poster child for a heart attack or liver failure. Most people don’t have what people call “life balance”. Simply because they are not taught how. They don’t have the resourcefulness to figure it out. They have reached a level of comfort in their lives where they tolerate the less than desirable results they currently getting.
But you are looking for answers. Which is good. You are seeking a better way, a better life. What you are looking for is fulfillment. Not just financial success. But most people don’t know how to both. Abundance AND fulfillment. That is true success.
One exercise we do will all our new clients is what we call the “Wheel of Life” which is basically a life satisfaction survey. It covers the 8 major aspects of your life and you rank your current level of satisfaction on a scale of 0 (sucks) to 10 (amazing) after having hundreds of people take it, there is a common pattern. Most people have 1 or 2 areas that they feel pretty good about, the majority are in middle, and 1 or 2 that are low. Less than 3% of the participants are high in all areas so you are likely in the majority.
You see, most people focus on the couple areas that they feel are important to them at the time, but realize they are sacrificing other areas along the way. They struggle to keep all the plates spinning at the same speed at the same time. So they focus on the ones that matter to them the most. Sound familiar?
What if I told you there is a way to actually do that? To live at levels 9-10 in every aspect of your life. That is what I call an “Incredible Life.” I can’t give you the complete answer that in a blog post, it takes me about a year to teach it to my clients in the Incredible Results Program. But I will give you a few of the key steps you need to take to start your journey.
Are you ready?
#1 – Get Clear. Most people don’t know what they want. Especially in the more touchy feely aspects like relationships and spiritual areas. Take the time to sit down and describe what a level 10 experience would like in each area. What would success look like in each area? For example, what would your ideal body look and feel like?
#2 – Get Committed! You have to want it more than you want to be comfortable. You have to be willing to pay the price for it.
#3 – Get Crankin’! Without action, NOTHING will change. Take consistent action daily to move forward and soon you will develop the momentum to take you heights you didn’t know existed.
#4 – GROW. You need to grow. You can’t produce better results until you grow.
Sound simple. It is. But is not easy. Easy is what most people are getting because that is what is comfortable. It takes work to make your life incredible. But not nearly as much as you think.
If you are interested in the Wheel of Life exercise, send me an email at Brian@BrianLovegroveCoaching.com and I will send you a link to it.
If you want to know more about the Incredible Results Program or how you can accelerate the process with our assistance, you can schedule a free consultation with me at www.VisitwithBrian.com
Have a great day and strive for excellence!